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No Room for Guilt in a Life You Chose on Purpose

Updated: Jun 13

Because joyfully living your truth shouldn’t require an apology


Have you ever caught yourself feeling a quiet guilt about your life?


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Not because you did anything wrong. Not because you hurt someone. But simply because… you chose a different path—and it’s actually working for you.


It’s a strange paradox: we consciously carve a life that feels right, only to feel guilty for living it.


Let’s pause right here. Because if you’re feeling the weight of that guilt, this post is for you.


Where Does This Guilt Come From?

Guilt, in this context, is rarely about wrongdoing. It’s often about non-conformity.


You’re thriving outside the “standard model,” and that can feel lonely or judged. Maybe you:

  • Chose slower over hustle

  • Prioritised mental wellness over high-pressure goals

  • Walked away from a high-paying job to follow your calling

  • Moved cities, changed careers, or started over in your 30s, 40s or beyond


Whatever your story is, one thing is clear: you made a choice. A bold, intentional one. So why the lingering guilt?


It’s because guilt is a mirror—it reflects internalised expectations, not your actual values.


Three Gentle Practices to Let Go of Guilt


1. Acknowledge the Guilt Without Judgment

Don’t shove it away. When you feel that pang, try saying: “Hi guilt, I see you. I know you’re trying to protect me. But I’m safe here.”

This small moment of compassion softens the inner resistance.


2. Trace the Voice Behind the Guilt

Ask: “Whose script am I following here?” Often, it's the voice of culture, family, a past version of you, or social media’s highlight reel. Becoming aware helps you detach from it.


3. Swap ‘Should’ for ‘Chose’

When you hear yourself say, “I should be doing more.”Try replacing it with: “I chose this with clarity. And I’m allowed to enjoy it.”

Words carry energy. This shift brings your power back home.


You Don’t Owe the World Your Burnout


Let’s be real—resting, slowing down, living intentionally—these aren’t signs of laziness. They’re acts of courage in a world obsessed with speed.


You don’t need to justify your happiness. You don’t need to apologise for your peace.


Because when you live from alignment, your energy radiates outward. It uplifts. It inspires. And that’s the ripple the world actually needs more of.


A Loving Reminder from Balance Nirvana:

You didn’t “escape” the rat race. You graduated from it.
You didn’t “quit” your old life. You chose your true one.
You’re not “lucky”. You’re aligned.

And alignment is sacred. It deserves celebration, not guilt.


Final Words


If you're living a life that feels meaningful—even if it's unconventional—hold it close. You created this path. You earned your peace. You don’t have to dim your light to make others comfortable.


Let go of the guilt. Live your truth unapologetically. And remember: Joy is not a detour. It’s the destination.





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