No Urban Escape Needed
- Suchit Patel
- Aug 21, 2023
- 2 min read
Updated: Mar 27
I used to think calm existed somewhere else.
In the mountains.
Near the ocean.
In places far from noise.
Not here.
Not in a fast-moving city.
But over time, something changed.
Not the city.
Just how I started noticing it.
Starting the Day Differently
My mornings used to begin with my phone.
Messages.
Emails.
News.
The day felt rushed before it even started.
Then I stopped.
Not completely.
Just for a few minutes.
I started sitting by the window.
Letting the light come in.
Doing nothing.
And slowly, I began to notice things.
Birds on ledges.
A quiet breeze.
Moments of stillness I had never paid attention to.
That one pause changed the tone of my day.
Finding Green in the Grey
One day, I took a different lane.
There was a small park between buildings.
Nothing special.
But it stayed with me.
After that, I started noticing more.
Small patches of green.
Trees I had walked past before.
Spaces that were always there.
The shift wasn’t in the city.
It was in paying attention.
A More Mindful Commute
I stopped rushing all the time.
When possible, I walked.
Took slightly longer routes.
Chose roads with trees.
Sometimes I paused.
Not for long.
Just enough to feel present.
It didn’t change the distance.
But it changed the experience.
Nature at My Desk

I kept a small plant on my desk.
It didn’t do much.
But it reminded me to pause.
During busy hours,
that small patch of green
brought me back.
Breaks That Feel Like Breaks
Earlier, breaks meant screens.
Now, sometimes I step outside.
Sit quietly.
Watch what’s around me.
Nothing dramatic happens.
But I return a little lighter.
Moving Outdoors
I once attended a session on a terrace.
Open sky.
Fresh air.
City in the background.
It felt different.
Not because of what I was doing.
But where I was.
Now, even simple stretches on the balcony feel enough.
Evenings with Intention
Evening walks became a habit.
The city slowing down.
Lights coming on.
The sky changing.
I don’t rush through it anymore.
Sometimes I just sit.
Sometimes I just walk.
It feels like a pause between days.
Ending the Day
At night, I think back.
Not about everything.
Just one moment.
Something small that felt calm.
It could be anything.
A breeze.
A quiet street.
A simple pause.
That’s enough.
A Simple Realisation
Calm isn’t somewhere else.
It’s already here.
We just don’t notice it
when we’re always moving.
You don’t need an urban escape.
Just a small pause.
And a little attention.




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